The C-Side.

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Jul 5

irrreversibility:

boys cry
girls masturbate
boys can like pink and not be gay
girls can have short hair and not be a lesbian
boys can like ballet
girls can like video games
boys can be hot without a six pack
girls can be hot without a hairless body
boys can have hair down to their waists
girls can have stretch marks, curves and back fat

gender doesn’t determine what you can and cannot enjoy, what you can and cannot look like or what you can and cannot do

Jul 5

l1berum:

there is a huge difference between genuinely liking someone and liking the attention they give you and it took me a long time to realise that

Jul 5

I used to feel so alone in the city. All those gazillions of people and then me, on the outside. Because how do you meet a new person? I was very stunned by this for many years. And then I realized, you just say, ‘Hi.’ They may ignore you. Or you may marry them. And that possibility is worth that one word.

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(Source: blazeberg)

Jun 1

Old Boys Club

On a typical Saturday or Sunday, when families were supposed to be together having typical weekend brunches (in Hong Kong, this would be dim sum in painfully loud restaurants), my dad was out of the house by 7am. He would be on his way to a golf course with his buddies in China. And I would be victim to my moms complaints, rants that eventually made their way to my dads “habits” from my forgetting to do a chore. He was the bad guy to blame for all this. He was always away.

So I am distraught, realizing that perhaps if he hadn’t gone to the old boys clubs we would not be living as comfortably as we are now. That it was his choice but also not. That it was more so his sacrifice, and something that my mom could not understand. That he did not follow through this without it plaguing his conscience. That he is also a victim of how the career system and workplace hierarchy work.

thechildofstyle:

find someone
who knows
you’re sad
just by the change
of tone in your
voice

be with someone
who loves the
feature that
you hate the most

fall in love with
someone who
looks at you and
knows they don’t
want anyone else

R’J

(Source: dreamingincyberspace)

A Thousand Years
Christina Perri

May 3
May 3
May 3

This one time I overheard my mother talking to our relatives about my brother and I. She was saying how different we were, that he was more of a giving person who would let others have their way whereas I was more selfish and hard-headed. But she added that this was what would make me successful in life. 

I don’t know if she knew I was listening.

I’m always listening. 

I guess we’ll see how it turns out. 

(Source: dem-aidz)

(Source: xanis)

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